No time for details

No time for details. My heart is shattered. Mr. Tattoo's is gone and I am scared to death of being alone these days - no - any day. Where do I go now? What do I do? This isn't rhetorical. I need answers.

He loves me. But he's not in love with me anymore. What?


Ruggy13 said...

You do the things that make you happy! You can work out, get your hair done, go shopping, hang out with your girls. Anything that's going to make you feel great and keep you from thinking about him at the end of the day! And slowly but surely you won't even think about him! I hope you feel better! I know it hurts now but everything happens for a reason which means there is someone even better waiting to find you!

Classy in Philadelphia said...

Ohh, no girl! What happened?

Don't be will be just can take some time for yourself. I promise it's a good thing!


Jamie said...

I just try to keep busy. Sometimes I want to be with my friends, and other times I just want to be alone. I always try to think that everything happens for a reason, and if it's meant to be it will!

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insomniaclolita said...

are you okay? god I hate when things like this happen too, it's confusing..i will usually keep busy and doing a lot of fun things with friends until I feel better, or less sad. hang in there :(

Rosemarie said...

That whole "I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore" is B.S.! He's scared to tell you the truth so he easily throws this out there for your little ears to hears but it's easier for HIM to just say this.

If there's one thing I've learned about guys is that they will do anything to make live, love (anything) easier on them. They are usually afraid to stand up and just admit the truth because there will be consequences or they are just afraid of our reactions.

They can't handle it. So they return to their 5-year-old-selves and lie. Because lets face it, lying is childish.

You've read my blog, you know my situation, your "Baby" will come along as mine did. Trust me. I've waited 2 years for him and he was right under my nose for 1 of those years. I just had to realize it on my own.

No worries.. think of this as more Elle Time! Spoil yourself!

Oh, and I'd totally be up for a ladies night! :) (with dirty martini's of course!)

Charlee said...

Awww hugs to you.

The best things to do are to focus on yourself and try to have as much fun as possible with friends--enjoy the single life! Sooner or later you're going to have to give it up, so enjoy your freedom whilst you're still able to!

As for men and their lines of bullshit, the old "I love you but I'm not in love with you" is probably the oldest one in the book--in my book, it translates into "I'm too much of a wimp/baby to man up and keep it real with you."

Haha that sounds harsh, but I think it's the truth...

Anyway, cheer up, I'm sure you'll feel much better about it tomorrow and I'm sure the drinks will be on your friends tonight, so enjoy yourself girl!!!

Undomesticated Newlywed said...

Awww honey, I just read this post. so sorry...but just like your most recent post says...god has bigger and better planned for you.

Cry a little or a lot...let it out and then get over it. You'll find that perfect someone when you are least expecting it and he'll love you for you and will always be IN LOVE with you!

Just gotta be patient...

AJ said...

bastard. I hate that line. "I love you...I'm just not sure I'm IN love with you."

oh yeah? were for sure about it last night when you were in my bed.